I Thinketh! - What is Rich?

Poor and content is rich, and rich enough.

~ William Shakespeare

Content makes poor men rich; discontent makes rich men poor.

~ Benjamin Franklin

There are people who have money and people who are rich.

~ Coco Chanel

This is rich. Sitting by the poolside, enjoying time to yourself, watching the children play with their blow-up ball splashing in the children's pool. No rush in getting to work, no pressure to meet a deadline. Nice clear sky in cool weather complementing the inviting waters. You just might jump in.

This is rich. Book in hand relaxing at the neighbourhood cafe at the start of the day. People watching. Scurrying citizens on their way to work, all dressed in their Sunday best which has become an every day best instead. Sunday is the time to wear slacks.

This is rich. Enjoying a game of tennis to work up a sweat before heading for a nice simple English breakfast at the nearby restaurant. Laughing, teasing, applauding with every ill-timed return and with every fluke. It's all in good fun. 

This is rich. Having a chat with a total stranger while in the queue in the supermarket. A curiosity question or remark started it all. Your conversation ends when your turn arrives but trade name cards to keep in contact. A year later, you two turn out to be good friends.

This is rich. Taking a plane ride to visit the place of your choice. You spend a week, two, maybe more, experiencing new food, practices, even picking up a new language (vaguely). Exploring cultures and its history. Stepping into the unknown. Perhaps making a friend or two. Your world becomes much larger than you expected.

This is rich. Volunteering to help out with some charity work. Peeking into the lives of total strangers. You see happy faces and troubled ones as well. You feel, you think, you realize life is precious and yet unfair. Perhaps you'll be a better person. Perhaps you'll see a troubled face smile.

This is rich. Your children jump into bed waking you up with their giggles and glee. You chase them out of the room so you can continue with your dream of winning the lottery. You go back to bed and the dream changes to you with the winnings in your arms. Your children being the prize.

Where's the richness in money for money's sake?

Cheers,

~K

I Thinketh! - Stuff in My Room & the Need to be Financially Free

This is the true joy of life, the being used up for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one. 
~ George Bernard Shaw

As I sit up on my bed typing this post with my future wife lying fast asleep cuddling up next to me, I’m reminded how important and what being financially free really is to me from just observing my surroundings.

In front of me stands my library. Three 2m high bookshelves cluttered with books.  These books from a wide range of categories – literature (classic and modern), contemporary fiction, finance, philosophy, travel, history, arts, science and language – lie dusty, in need of wiping, and quite a number in need of being read. It’s been a nagging thought of mine to start. Instead, I find myself constantly being distracted by something else that needs looking into causing me to put down the book I intended to read.

The last I had any proper time to really start and concentrate on my book was on a holiday to Krabi in September. That was a beautiful and relaxing trip. I finished the book too - all 300 odd pages of it - in the 4 days I was away. Just like I used to in the past. It helped that it was a page-turner. The Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk.

Today, I find my eyes constantly drawn to my guide on Italy. The breakfast chatter with my brother has got me longing to travel once more. I love Europe and want to visit it again. Backpacking around for a month wasn’t enough. England, France, Germany, Czech Republic. That was more than four years ago. The mini-trips since then never quite matched up to the experience. Let's Go, the words on my travel guide to Italy says on the cover. I want to. It’s been a dream of mine.

My future wife rolls over in her sleep and my thoughts turn to her. In another year, we should be married. A wedding. Honeymoon. A house. And then kids. I’m not quite sure that they’re always in that order though. But I am sure that I want to be capable no matter the order they come in, and not handicapped by that piece of paper constantly changing hands called money.

I’m also sure that eventually we’ll have a dog. A dog that will provide love to and will be loved by the family. A dog that will be annoyed by the kids, but will play with them all the same. But eventually dogs too, grow old, and a lot faster than us. And at the end, we’ll wish we had spent more time with it before the inevitable. I’ve experienced this before. And I never hope to experience it again, let alone wish it on my children. The mat in the corner of my room ensures this. It belongs to the past.

Old age, illness, they go hand in hand. Personal calamities that need dealing with. The medicine bottle lying on the shelf serves as that reminder.  Zoom out. The world is a lot larger than our own personal problems. Wars, famine, poverty. Animals ill-treated. Species threatened. Dying. People suffering, children homeless. Uneducated. Sometimes all they need is a bit of helping hand. Isn’t that what humanity is all about? A dollar goes a long way. Involvement goes even further.

In short, being financially free opens up options, giving one more time to do the things that really matters to oneself and in that way, living and eventually dying without any regrets.

Able to do what one wants to do, when one wants to do it. The long awaited freedom.

~K

It's All Part of the Plan

Vision without action is a dream. Action without vision is simply passing the time. Action with vision is making a positive difference. ~ Joel Barker

Yes I'm a Joker fan if you recognized the title as a quote from the latest Batman film, the Dark Knight. And which emotion did the Joker incite most? Yep, that's right (or at least I hope you said). Fear.

Fear is a very powerful emotional tool that prevents a lot of people from achieving their dreams. It's so powerful that it's been one of the main obstacles in hindering people from reaching their first million dollars. Why is that? Well for starters, some of us have strong doubts of our ability. Or, we fear the amount of work we'll have to put in, the sacrifices we'll have to make, the relationships we'll have to sacrifice, the cost of failure, the fear of embarrassment, the lost of respect, the troubles we'll cause, the label of "bankrupt" stapled to us wherever we go, the loss of our homes, our jobs, our families, all because of a desire to live life to its fullness. And so what do we do? We make excuses, we procrastinate, we delude ourselves into thinking we're ok just scrapping by, we think life will change when we're lucky enough to strike TOTO or 4-D or whatever lottery we take part in, we look at the guy driving the Ferrari and think "Lucky devil." and just continue looking, we blame the world for our circumstance, our parents, our teachers, our damn luck. Yes, we just wait. I waited too, for such a long time, without realizing I was missing out on opportunities everywhere. So I know exactly what waiting does to oneself. It does absolutely nothing.

If you want to see money coming into your pockets, wanting it is simply not enough. Yes, the first step is to desire it but then, you have to vision it, see it, feel it, believe that you can obtain it and then most important of all, act on it. The Mindset is crucial and that gets you acting. So what do you do now?

Now you start to aim, plan and do. Aim how much you want to retire on, or how much you want to earn each month, or how much you want to be able to spend each month, etc. Figure out what your objectives are. Is it to grow your money? Protect your capital? Save for an education fund for your kids? Are you saving for future medical costs? And then prioritize. Make this aim clear with real figures with real dates to achieve this by. Divide this into long-term goals (>5yrs), mid-term goals (2-5yrs) and short-term goals (<2yrs).>

Whew, sounds complicated isn't it? Well if it is, the first person you'd like to speak to is a financial planner. Wherever you are, you should consult a certified financial planner who is well-versed in the various investments and who is able to tailor your plan to your objectives. But believe me, it really isn't that hard to start.

You might want to educate yourself first. Here are some suggestions:

1. Personal Finance for Dummies

2. Mastering Your Personal Finance - Dennis Ng

3. The Automatic Millionaire - David Bach

4. Start Late Finish Rich - David Bach

5. Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires - Adam Khoo

6. Rich Dad Poor Dad - Robert Kiyosaki

Well, the weekend is here again. So take care and enjoy!

Cheers,

~K